This is why a lot of people say that the team is important. Those who can join your path and join the pain and occasional happiness together. These are coping mechanisms against the hardships. But only when you know what you are willing to cut out of life, can you truly know how much you want something. «It's important to have best friends», it might be true, but best friends take time. It takes effort. Just like that business you want, or that body, or that state of mind. I meet a lot of people that are always complaining about things and who throw blame around. This way of being is without a doubt, not a future successful person. If you blame others and aren't able to take responsibility you got nothing to do with the greats. There is simply no room for people who can't assume full responsibility for their own actions and where they are.